原来我一直都身在福中不知福

最近好多女性朋友找我谈心，感情方面，有男朋友的烦恼，没有男朋友的也烦恼。其实我挺好奇大家怎么都跑我这儿来了呢。。难道I look like a person who’s good at dealing with relationship issues? …

当然，我还是很乐意当知心姐姐的，这表示大家很信任我哈！话说回来，有男朋友的那群女生，分了手的觉得寂寞，想分手的却又不舍得多年的感情，好好谈着的又时不时吵个小架冷战两天。。感情这东西，真麻烦；在女人身上，尤其麻烦。。。

从她们的口中，我见识了形形色色的男朋友，言听计从的、傻得可爱的、控制欲强的、害怕付出的。。有long distance几年回到一个城市后反而不能make it的；也有在一起很多年感觉慢慢变淡而收场的；还有女生崇拜偶像般看待男朋友，从而对他说的话无甚判断力的。。。

见多听多了，也就渐渐地见怪不怪了。怎么样性格背景为人处事的男人都好，if you do care about your girlfriend, she can feel it since you would be listening to her, remembering what she ever said, and doing things only to see her smile even if they are just some tiny little things. We girls can tell it whether we really mean something to you guys. Even if we say nothing, we know it all the way.

听着朋友们的故事，想到我自己，想到他，原来我比我想象中要幸运的多。不是没有complain过，总觉得还不够，I kinda took it for granted that you tried to see me as much as possible, you drove to my home to give me medicines only because I told you over the phone I didn’t feel comfortable in my throat, and you staying up listened to me talking nonsense in spite of your tiredness and sleepiness after a long day.

原来，you’ve already done a better job than a lot of others do. I should be feeling content with you, with us, and treasure the moments we are together.

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