To Care About

Nine out of ten times when a girl is pissed off by her boyfriend, it is not because she doubts his love for her, but he fails to show his care about her.

We are not upset since you are too busy to see us. There are so many things going before girlfriends, like family, career, even friends. We are upset since we don’t see your efforts in trying to make some time for us.

Should you care enough, you could definitely make some plans even if you were as busy as Bill Gates.

We are not upset since you go out having fun with your friends. Everyone is entitled to his own social life. We are upset since you don’t call after the parties. It’s not that we worry if you get to know new girls, we just want to make sure you make it home safely in case you get drunk.

Should you care enough, you would make the call knowing we are expecting it and try not to get drunk because we will worry otherwise.

We are not upset since you don’t keep in touch every day when you are out of town. It is understandable that it’s not convenient to get access to internet or make international calls due to time differences and lack of internet facilities somewhere. We are upset since you ignore the messages from us and don’t even reply.

Should you care enough, you could have figured out how much we want to be connected with you and your life. You wouldn’t have kept us waiting and checking our phones just like idiots.

We are not upset since you still keep in touch with your ex-girlfriends or you still see them from time to time. Ex is past and past already means nothing. We are upset since you hide it from us that you still contact your ex. You should have nothing to hide if past really means past to you.

Should you care enough, you would have let us know in advance and told us not to worry anything.

So guys, next time if you upset your girlfriend, do not blame her for being unreasonable instantly. Think it over yourself whether you have cared enough about how she feels.

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